So a a day or 2 ago I decided to see if I could get the linux DreamDaemon working
I'm very satisfied on my success
I run the server on my linux pc
and play the games on my windows pc

but I have 2 problems

1:an easy way to reboot the server

2:somehow getting the host verbs so that I can have dominance over my server because as of now its somewhat difficult to deal with unruly players

an answer to problem 1 would be nice but I'm most concerned with problem 2