Well, as stated earlier read through the FAQ and the Guide to start with, and as your first coding project you defenitelly want to do the ZBT tutorial, it's the best starter tutorial out there and people don't recommend it for no reason.

After that, learn to write in proper english. That's not to be rude, writing properly will show people that you are serious about what you say, it'll show them that you're mature enough to carry it out, and that you're smart enough to understand what they're talking about. It also shows that you care about what they're going to tell you because you put the effort out to be understood, and in turn they're going to put the effort out to understand you. That way, you'll get more useful help and less senseless mockings.

Once you've completed the ZBT tutorial and gotten it functioning properly, go through some of the other tutorials, libraries, and demos and search for things you want to add to your game. In the process to adding them to your game you'll learn a little more about how and why things work each time you do. If you run into any problems that you absolutely cannot figure out on your own, post it here on the Newbie Board.